Although Crystal worries about how this is going to work out, she does agree to let Katie move in with Elizabeth above the bakery. After a few weeks she is relieved to see that this arrangement is working out very well for everybody and Katie loves life. They have a care provider come in twice a week to help with cleaning, make sure they are keeping up with their bills and also make sure they have done grocery shopping and are eating well. In order to keep their house running smoothly, Katie and Crystal have multiple checklists posted around the house for different reasons. In the kitchen the checklist reminds them to make sure food is put away, dirty dishes are in the dishwasher and that any appliances are off/unplugged when they are done. By there door there is a “leaving the house” which reminds them to shut off the lights, turn off TV and other appliances and lock the door. The care aid also set up some organizational strategies for Katie and Elizabeth. There a hook for their keys, a mail organizer which sorts the mail into bills, outgoing and other (magazines, catalogs etc..) and a color coded calendar showing due dates, Katie’s events and Elizabeth’s events. Finally They have an emergency board which lists all important numbers and emergency procedures for a variety of situations. All of these are aided by simple and clear language, pictures and easy to follow maps when needed. Once a month the care aid goes over the emergency plans so that they stay fresh in their minds.
Katie is still very passionate about her job at the bakery and Rosie says she is the nest worker she has ever employed. Katie is even picking up more advanced baking skills with a lot of practice and at her own pace.
Crystal, also feels that she has reached a successful point in life. She is now head stylist and manager of the classiest salon in the area. In addition she has purchased her own town house still only a few miles away from Katie. Now that she is making better money she has invested in Long Term Care Insurance for Katie. She pays most of it but Katie was insistent on also chipping in with her own money. Although Katie is fine on her own, Crystal will not be around forever and Katie will most likely reach a point in her life where she has aged considerably and may need a more supportive environment. This policy puts Crystal’s mind at ease about the future. At 50 years old, with Katie living so independently, Crystal finally feels she can take more time to worry about her own life and relationships. She meets a man named Henry and within a year is married, Katie being her maid of honor in the wedding.
Crystal is not the only one focusing on relationships. Katie is always attending social events for people with disabilities and when she is 37 she meets Josh. Josh is forty years old and also has Down syndrome. He also lives independently with a home aid that comes in a few times a week. Josh works at the local grocery store in the produce section. They have a lot in common and feel very comfortable with each other. Much to Katie’s joy they begin dating exclusively. Even though Crystal is happy for Katie she worries about Katie’s decisions about sex. She decides to go with Katie to a doctor and family planning counselor to review sex and talk about Katie’s options. Katie agrees to go talk to someone and Crystal can come but she wants to have one on one time with the doctor. After her appointment Katie decides she would like to get the Depo Provera shot as a form of birth control.
When Katie is 40 Josh proposes. Katie is delighted and quickly says yes. Katie and Elizabeth are sad about not living together anymore but they will only be a few minutes away from each other as the house that Josh lives in is very close. When Josh’s parents retired they moved to Florida but kept the house so Josh could stay in it and have is In-home support. Being decently well off, Josh’s parents set aside a good amount of money for his future care costs.
Now that Rosie is older she no longer has the energy to run the bakery. Her oldest daughter decided that she would take over instead of her mom selling it. With that she is more than happy for Katie to continue work there.
For Katie’s 50th birthday, Crystal and Josh throw her an amazing party with all of her friends from work, the community center and her other organizations. Her long time pen pal even flies in to surprise Katie and meet her for the first time face to face. Unfortunate shortly thereafter Crystal is diagnosed with lymphoma. She spends two years battling but at the age of 70 she passes away. Katie is beside herself with grief but with the help of the community center and friends she finds support and carries on with leading a happy and fulfilling life.
When Katie and her home health care notice that Josh is having an extremely difficult time caring for himself the way he used to. He is much more forgetful and at times seems to be very confused. Even though Katie is pretty independent she has also needed to increase the amount of support she receives at home especially with much of the physical work such as cleaning and cooking. Now that Josh’s stability is declining there is no way she can continue with the way she is living. As part of her will, Crystal set up that any money form the sale of her townhouse would be set up in an account for the security of Katie’s future. Katie, her aid and Crystal’s executor of estate begin looking at Katie and Josh’s options for care.
By the time she is sixty years old, Katie is living with Josh at a very comfortable assisted living community. They have doctors, nurses and domestic help right at their finger tips. They are also many activities right on-site such as exercise groups, game nights, and planned field trips. They are still granted a fair amount of independence though. Katie no longer works full-time at the bakery but a few times a month she goes in to do some baking for her own pleasure.
Two years after moving to assisted living, when she is almost 63, Josh dies from a massive heart attack. Again Katie must move through the grief process but she still has a ton of support from friends and her new assisted living community. With Josh gone Katie moves into a smaller unit at the community to save money. Josh left her with a fair amount to live on, combined with her long-term care insurance and money from Crystal’s small but helpful estate Katie lives a modest yet comfortable life.
At age 68, Katie contracts a terrible case of pneumonia. She is hospitalized for two weeks but Katie’s immune system is not strong enough to handle the battle. One of her lungs collapses and she is put on a respirator. Three weeks after she is admitted to the hospital, Katie’s body succumbs to the pneumonia and passes away.
A ton of people from the community attend Katie’s funeral. She is buried next to Crystal and Josh.